Sunday, April 29, 2007
I've Made It!!
Now I'm more comfortable on stage by myself...really thanks to last time did many TTs... I sincerely here to thank to Jason who gives me so many opportunities to TT with him and let me comfortable with the teaching on stage. And also thank to other instructors which I TT before. Without their help I don't think I will be who am I now. I'm glad to know everyone here to help each other and give encouragement and comments as necessary. Thank to all help me before :)
*update:
On Sat, I was so dumb dumb donno how to on the volume...lucky got previous instructor help :p then hoh...I didn't change the battery from previous class...so last half of the class without mic! dumb dumb me bleh
On Sun, lucky got a good sifu from previous class help me fix the battery and nothing blur this time...hehe. gotta learn how to adjust the volume and the mic ler.
5 ways to decode your date
Activity #1: Share a communal meal
Instead of choosing standard dinner fare, take your date to a place that encourages — or better yet, requires — that you share what you order, whether that’s fondue, Korean barbecue, or Spanish tapas. Suddenly, the “I’ll order mine, you order yours” rule is out the window, so you’ll get the real scoop on how well they compromise. When you suggest something exotic, does your date seem open to it or make a face, then steer you toward something else on the menu? Once the food arrives, there’s more to learn. Those who get territorial about the dish “they” wanted or seem leery of infringing on “yours” or “your half” all suggest that the give-and-take that relationships require won’t come naturally to them, warns Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of the upcoming DSI: Date Scene Investigation. The true keepers are those who will voluntarily dump the last morsel on your plate and won’t mind if you’ve double-dipped. (After all, if they can’t handle swapping a little saliva over nachos and salsa, how are they ever going to handle more intimate moments involving the exchange of bodily fluids?)
Activity #2: Play a game
Want to know how your date plays the game of life? Pit yourself against your partner in pool, ping-pong, miniature golf, or stay home and have a battle of the Xbox. As you’re playing, ask yourself: Is your date playful or serious about scoring? Does this person curse when losing or gloat when winning? “There’s nothing wrong with wanting to win, but you’ll learn a lot if your date has to win,” points out Sharyn Wolf, Manhattan psychotherapist, and author of Guerilla Dating Tactics: Strategies, Tips and Secrets for Finding Romance. If your date’s got a serious competitive streak, you’d be fooling yourself to think it doesn’t carry over to other areas—like his or her love life. “These people will see arguments as win/lose propositions, too, and they won’t quit until they’ve won,” warns Kerner. If, however, your date cheers you on when you score a point, that’s a sign of a truly supportive partner, so take note.
Activity #3: Put on your dancing shoes
The next time you’re out, consider dragging your date on the dance floor—and fear not, this isn’t about having a dance-off. In fact, seeing your date do the boogie-woogie isn’t even about the dancing; it’s about their willingness to dance in the first place. “There’s nothing that makes a person more self-conscious than dancing—especially men,” says Wolf. “If your date dances, this shows the person’s good at surrendering, at not being in complete control in front of others, and that your date is less concerned about what others will think.” Which is all good information!
Activity #4: Take a stroll
Instead of sitting down for a movie or coffee, step outdoors for a walk through a park and see what happens. Can you two keep the conversation going away from music, alcohol and people watching? “It’s life without props,” points out Kerner. See how your date can handle lulls in conversation: The longer this person can wait before filling the silence, the more comfortable your date is with him or herself—and the lower the chance that what you’re seeing is a “front” put up to impress you.
Activity #5: Go for a drive together
The next time your date offers to drive you somewhere, pay attention to how they react on the road. “Driving is very, very revealing,” says body language expert Patti Wood (pattiwood.net). “Years ago, I was on a first date with a man who’d turn left at yellow lights, and take lots of risks on the road. That told me he was a person who would always live a little on the edge.” Other insights from Wood: Lane-changers will probably always be on the lookout for someone better-looking, smarter, or richer than you. Picky parkers who always want to go around one more time to see if they can snag a closer spot probably have problems with commitment. Herky-jerky drivers who accelerate and brake so quickly they leave your stomach queasy may have poor sense of pacing in all areas of life. Plus, if you’re driving, see how they handle it—nagging that you should slow down, speed up, or otherwise do things differently is a sign this person probably won’t love you just the way you are (starting with your bad driving).
Souce of 5 ways to decode your date
Crab Again!
After makan went to Starbucks at Curve have a cup of tea/coffee....lagi full haha. I felt sleepy after makan one...so we just sat a while and play around with laptop and visit some websites... kekeke cant tell what websites :p
Here the food photos again to make you sulivers drop hohoho
The group :)
Izzi Restaurant
Last 2 week's Saturday
One of the Jammer who took BJam training together with me came to KL for holiday. So I try to arrange a meet up with him and others who know him. Unfortunately some of them are busy with their own stuffs. Only me, simone and claire able to make it...raymond joined later. claire was late as well. We went to izzi lifestyle restaurant located at Jln Sultan Ismail (same row as California Fitness). It is quite a big restaurant...It has 2 or 3 storeys. It can accomodate many ppl and also a lot ppl queueing. May be what attracted ppl go is bcos if u spend >100rm bill then u can get 50% discount. Quite a nice place and cozy. It has wifi zone also. The menu also look interesting...got starters, pizza, pastas, asian, steaks, salads etc...they also serve cakes and chocolate at the front counter. Another thing I checked on menu....a kid meal free if an adult order main course. This restaurant originally from Indonesia. The price range ok and cheap after discounted. FYI cake not included. the rest include. Will be there again to try other food. And if you got any party may be it's a right place also. They got party area upstairs. They got a nice comfy sofas also.
Some of our photos and food pics taken...let me show you guys....
all of us
Here the food we ate! the chicken wings delicious...original with their special sauce. the pizza great also. I ate carbonara and not bad. simone had bolognese which recommended by chef. wan tan mee by makoto not nice. the cheeze bun not bad. their cakes nice also especially the apple struddle...definitely will go back again to try on others on the menu! kakaka
After dinner and raymond said go La Queen...then ok la since they got free sms to enter by doing some trick ;) first time clubbing with someone else and it was fun. It was a crazy night. the night in conjuction with Songkran in BKK. so they said will pour water. Tell you what..we all whole wet. I didn't dress proper for the event. I just join them clubbing last minute since they asked so. But it was fun and crazy and happy to know more friends from other states...hmmm I got 'ngan fook' to see all the nice nice bodies hiak hiak....opppsss can't tell much here ;) the night ended around 3am ish.
Saturday, April 21, 2007
Wave Training
First Replacement Class
Today just got to know I got a first permanent Jam class in Hartamas on Sunday :p starting next month...sob sob need to prepare for it liao!
New Job Experience
First day my job in IBM. Left my house before 8am. I've made many mistakes on this day. 1st: went to sg besi highway direction. It was traffice jam started from the exit from sri petaling. 2nd: Try detour to old klang road (cos I know from sg besi to federal highway will be jam) but seem that old klang road even worst. Move slow compare to federal highway direction. I took nearly an hour to escape from the jam. But after old klang road join to federal highway no jam. And I cut thru kerinchi link which give me a smooth all the way to 1U. 3rd: Park my car at Plaza IBM basement which hourly rate! First half day RM8 then I removed my car to 1U cost RM3. Not only parking rate expensive but I'm also bad luck....my car got 'kemek' by someone's car when I took my car at basement during lunch time :(( wanna cry liao....
First day in IBM was an orientation day. about 20+ people same started their first day. We were placed at one room to listen presentations about the company, the departments, the benefits and etc which they wan us to know. Then we had welcome lunch at Good Evening Bangkok. All presentations end around 5pm. Then they distribute ThinkPad to everyone. And we need to configure everything that needed which took another 3 hours. End up I left work at 8ishpm :(. Here many rules...many things to know especially lots of terms! And passwords as well. every single thing also need password...ids....etc etc.
My first day was very tired due to too many informations gotta know...too many things to remember. phew... However good thing is everyone are new and we have common. Know some new friends there. Oh yah...first day suppose will have a mentor to guide you...but I'm the unlucky one cos my mentor not free. And I'm the only one from IT department...the rest are from Finance, Accounting, Sales, Customer fullfilment etc.... sigh...
Tuesday
Was told by my manager I gotta attend DB2 Boot Camp. Leave earlier from home. Go by sg besi highway all the way to federal highway. I don't dare to go by old klang road anymore. Park at 1U which everyone said this is the cheaper option for parking. After parked but I lost my way to walk to office. walked around and asked around...end up walked a big big circle only manage to reach. sigh. Reached office and to the floor I'm suppose to be (but I have no idea where is my workstation is due to no one bring me before). Look for my manager but she is not in yet (that time was 9am). So someone else brought me to the training room. I was blur and donno what and who...lucky got a guy from same team guide me. Then only I know the Boot Camp is 3 full days training. So my second day was lectured and do some hands on practices. My mentor took me for lunch and helping me to solve my problems and telling me what I need where to get etc. tsk tsk...too many things to know at the moment...kind of a bit lost :p. Second day parking also costly cos I didn't remove my car during lunch (forgotten and no time). Cost me RM9 leh. Heartache :(( wa wa wa wa.... fyi, plaza IBM got season parking (or u can say not bcos the parking are other tenants which not move in yet) and monthly cost RM150 per month Mon-Fri only. Kind of expensive right? but for convenience I think I'll try to get one if possible. Damn... my expensive increase! ish ish. petrol + toll + parking...wa wa wa wa!
Wednesday - Thursday
still in boot camp. This DB2 9 boot camp is once a year by international instructor. I have to attend cos my job is technical consultant on DB2. I'm in IBM Innovation Centre (IIC) which help the Independant Software Vendors (ISV) to do engagement enablement by helping to do porting to DB2 from Oracle, SQL Server, MySQL and etc. So I gotta be expert in DB2 :p My job is to consult and guid them. Also need to answer questions that they ask. Most important is to get customer satisfaction for my performance...sob sob...not sure I can do it or not as now not that expert at all. Wed due to the training till quite late and forsee I'll be late for Wave class at 6:30pm so I just ask replacement and lucky got someone helped. Thurs got unit meeting from 5pm till 7ish pm...left office about 8. After so many long days working and when leaving office I feel that no where I can go and what should I do...was too tired yet feel like meeting friends. But end up went home to rest.
I was not feeling well on Thursday...had headache and sorethroat. After meeting and time to go home my head super heavy. After home do nothing and lie on the bed. I can fall asleep without knowing it. I no longer got a problem to get into sleep...because I'm too tired and not feeling well. It was long time I didn't fall asleep while doing something...now it happened again. Can you imagine how tired I am?
Friday
Everyday got to know new things and new people that I will work with. Even got someone putting pressures on me for the job I suppose need to do. I find that people in IBM really experienced and they are very technical....may be they worked long and know very well on operations...Kind of pressures cos someone expecting you should be expert as well. I've gotta more concentrate to work better. Today given a lot of stuffs to read....need to know how to get started and what should I need to do. A bit worry now but I wish I can take the challenge. If I'm successful to sustain will be no problem....Now hoping I can manage my time well between work and gym class. I'll get more classes in future....and work getting busy and need determination also... gotta justifying myself to such situations....wish me luck :)
*one thing to highlight - IBM has vending machines for free Hot Coffee, Milo, teh tarik and Cold Milo and Ice lemon tea...every floor has pantry with fridge and microwave oven :) U will love it hehehe
Now weekend...also do readings about my work. Will try to rest more and stay at home more. Need to dedicated for work more. Time to get out from comfort zone and aim for what I want.
Friday, April 13, 2007
My Last Day
Had farewell lunch with colleagues...just simple one la. Nothing special. In fact, I don't feel close to colleagues here except one girl. The rest just hi bye only. I don't even bother what they are doing. I'm like separate individual doing my own things and never interact with them at all. We are not doing same stuffs can said so. I also don't really like the office environment...don't give a damn to it at all. Come to work...no lunch with them...then off work as early as I can. First time I don't have feeling with the company and the colleagues....not like what I experienced before. But who cares...
OK is time to say bye bye to this company....now rushing to clean up everything and time to leave my laptop here....after today no laptop use liaoo...and gotta wait till monday to get a new one :D Wish me luck for the new job on next Monday!!! :p
**Update:
Forgot to say that even after my last day I am require to help them if they needed me. Of course I will charge for the consultation fees. And when new programmer in I have to help them to transfer the knowledge...but I'm gonna to give me some conditions. I don't wish I always get calls from them...ask to work at night...or ask to work during weekends too often...sometimes u got pay but u wish to have rest and do something else instead work on the shit which u wish to escape from right? And may be new job require my time to concentrate also...who knows...so hopefully they don't need me much but I doubt that...sigh
Eat All You Can!
Basically I can't remember how many dishes we ate. Let me have a rough list out. 1 sharfin soup (only can order once), 1 egg yok crab (only can order once), 1 scallop with broccoli (only can order once), 3 types of fishes, 3 types of prawns, 3 types of vege, 1 steamed egg, 1 fried squid, 1 chinese pancake, and everyone had at least 2 bowls of desserts and myself had 4 bowls and another friend had 5 bowls! U say a lot of not?? I ate until wanna vomit liao kakaka. The food delicious but a bit salty (most of the dishes). recommend the crab, the kai lan with salty fish...basically all niceeeee and the bill cost RM43.70 exactly for each person. Not bad yoh.
Suggest you to make prior booking...if u were be there to wait for seating u might gotta wait. And keep ur stomach for the night. Just like me no lunch for the day! kakakaka
Let's see how's the food look like....emmmm towards end lazy to take pic or forgotten or rushing back la....we started at 7ish end almost at 10pm. You gotta wait for ur order for at least 20 to 30 minutes....
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
How to make myself sleep better?
I was annoyed by who disturb me from sleep. Especially those call me in the midnight at 2ish. damn...so hard to get back to sleep and especially u need it more. And during weekend if want to sleep longer also got woke by calls or sms. duh... even now wanna nap in the office also got disturb by ppl! all admins out to lunch and no one open the door...how come those ppl never thought of lunch time the person u r looking for will go out lunch meh?? I am super annoyed now...whoever near me I will marah...can't help because lack of sleep mar.
Monday, April 09, 2007
Chinese Name
First of all...overall the name with the birth time means Too Staunch. Below are the elaborations about my name.
1. Stubborn personality
2. Control husband
3. Beautiful
4. Lots of opposite sex going after
5. Ferocious features
6. Hot temper which scare ppl away
7. Marriage lots of problems
Yup...above are about me...and quite true also :p bleh... I need to change my chinese name so can be better person...hehe Besides, my sis also told me my life is meant to have late marriage :( duh.... which around age 34 or 35 only :(( and husband should be younger than me...and bcos my name will means bring no good marriage... if got married also will get divorced. It happened someone same name as me got divorced... sob sob :((( I don wan like this....I think I will change it so will see what are the changes will be :p
Sometimes is not you believe or not....but no harm to try right? and since what about me is so true .... bleh.... hopefully change it will bring me something different...but not cheap though... sigh...wish me luck :D let me changed it first and tell u guys later my new name kekeke...frankly...I don like my current name also...too common and not nice. good to change it :p
Updates
This is the last week in my current company. Next Monday starting new job. A bit worry and excited...scare I don't adapt with the new environment. After all, I never used to work in big company before...sob sob. Kind of looking forward for it. Now really not much mood to continue my current work...but I have to finish it as much as I can... I was stress out last week due to the clearance and the work....seem that no time for me to complete. Is kind of hard to cope with all the things at the same time...but now one down...and this week another one to go.... then after that new things new life new environment for me...
Clearance
Last Saturday was a clearance cum audition night at TF. I went for it and I managed to went thru which means I've cleared to instruct in TF for Body Jam! yay...it's been long I'm working on this day. However I've told still need to work harder...ya...have to. It was really exhausted day for me. I went to gym at 2ish and started with TT 3pm class. Then rest a while and TT again for 2nd class at 5pm. and the audition starts at 7pm. Before the audition starts I was already tired...my legs and body so pain.... During audition...there are freestyles auditions first then only LesMills programs. We all require to follow to do everyone's audition...steps, cardio dance, yoga, hi lo then follow by BS, BB, BJ, BA...lucky BP and BC at other floor.... :p When my turn I've already too tired to concentrate...and made mistakes and kan cheong some more. sigh... not in my expectations... but lucky I've got clear... yippie! Here would like to thanks to all my beloved buddies who support me all the way...asking me not to give up. Special thanks to Jason who always guide me and give me chances. Also thanks to gym buddies Raymond, Clement, Purdey, Jon, Sharon, Simone, Barney and the rest keep encouraging me...arigatou...hugzzzz!!
Training
I've signed up for Body Step training in May and confirmed I'm in it. Excited and worry whether can I do it well or not. From now on will try to join more BStep classes...learn as much as I can. Build up my stamina...wish me luck for the coming training lor...
OK now I'm worry donno I can cope with all these...new job, new jam which scare to get replacement to teach whole class, and step training and if success another program to worry abt. tsk tsk....hope I won't went siao hahaha.
Thursday, April 05, 2007
So You Think You Can Dance?
Now this dance show have a first season in Malaysia. Tonight started first episode of Malaysia version. Every Thursday 9:30pm 8TV. Check it out if you are interested. And don't forget vote for a friend of mine Jimmy who in the top 20 finalist. Jimmy is a good dancer which you've seen him dance in my previous post on a dance clip. Support if you can ya :)
Small Accident
Thursday, March 29, 2007
Opportunities Play Around with Me
Thinking back few years ago when I first started have my first job in KL. (worked very first job in Singapore after graduated). After a while joined the job in KL I was looking for new job cos cannot stand the boss way of doing work. However I was too fresh and very hard for me to get. Been looking for about 3 years then only managed to get another one and is really time to move on. While working on 2nd job...I don't really look for any job and suddenly a job hunter called to ask for interview. Every time got such opportunity I will just go ahead and see is it good opportunity lor....then I got the offer. Just started 3rd job then my fren which own current job I'm working with ask me favour to do the project. Of course offer more than my previous job then I move on again :p Total last year I've changed 3 jobs in 3 different companies hehehe. All of them not I'm looking for it but the opportunity came to me.
And after started this 4th job which is current one...I thought I will be working for long since the pay and flexibility I have....who knows another opportunity came again...I submitted my resume to new job early of last year. That time they got opening for a position which I'm not interested. Till end of last year they called me again for another opening position. So I just give it a try. Because of current job responsibility I don't really keen to take the new job. But called for 2nd interview and talked to another higher rank manager....she got her words...convinced me to think about it again. After consideration only decided to take it without concern other worries... So this year changing 1 job... My friends always said I'm lucky and said I'm job hopper :p I don't mean to be like this....but when opportunities come you should give a try mar...and I can make it so mar take it....good for salary increment also hahaha.
Another thing is all the while I wish to work in bigger corporation but no luck at all. But recently I got the luck to enter big company but not only 1 come however another 1 coming which is the call for interview one...sometimes when opportunities come is not for you to choose...is the timing I can say...I'm still good to get into big co...should glad on it. :)
Hopefully after switched to new job it won't happened again....hohoho finger crossing :p and I think it wont la...
Drivers these days...sigh
I donno why....lately I do find that a lot these kind of drivers on the road! Let say some cases...while you are on straight road and out of sudden the car from slower lane cut in to fast lane without signal. Or the car infront of you drive superb slow whereby no car infront of him. You will like...what the hell he is driving so slow? Blocking the way especially you were rushing time. Apart from drivers...there are some motorist also gung ho. They can one motorcycle block the whole highway lane. Or they were suppose on the left side of the road out of sudden to the middle road cause me gotta avoid him. They can come out from junction without seeing any car coming and best part is they came out fast and straight in the middle of the road. Another one is they never follow traffic light...it was red light to him and my green light. He doesnt care and just pass thru traffic light and turn in to the road same direction as me.
In conclusion...my life will shorten because of all these incidents!
Thursday, March 22, 2007
My Widget
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Skybar @ Traders Hotel
It was my virgin visit to Skybar and gave me good impression. Like the environment there. Great view. Not many ppl and those are nice ppl around. Let me show some pics here :)
Here the Skybar interior. There is a swimming pool in between and on the left there are partitioned cushion's seats (like japanese style with a hole in between to put ur leg)...but when I first enter I was huh? how come got swimming pool? and I was so carefully walk to the bar at the end. scared slipped and drop inside the pool :p...This view is from our table...the middle table at the end of the swimming pool. Quite a nice location where we can see many things and enjoy the breeze... Cozy place but it does feel hot sometimes...fyi no aircond and the roof not covered.
These are the views from Skybar. Their design where only half of the barrier is glass and top half opened. Different angle you can have different view. Very catchy...feels good stand on the side to look at those views. oh yah...from our table also can see Genting Highlands clearly! Someone from us keep looking at it and feel like going there some more hehehe.
These are the group of community peoples where we usually gather with. More or less about the same ppl. But 2 couples went to UK for good. Some were absenced due to some works. 2 more couples getting married soon in this year. One thing funny some couples found their partner from the community...too bad I joined in too late so unable to get one :p But able to get great friends from there!
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
NRSW Dancehall Party
NRSW Dancehall Caribbean Dance Rhythms Party is coming! Check out the date printed on the poster.
Date: 23 March 07
Time: 6:30pm onwards
Venue: Sunway Lagoon Surf Beach
ONLY FOR WOMEN!! if u think u are you can go ;) :p
heard the party will dry out the pool water and all dance on the pool. The schedule for that night will start with Yoga then a cardio dance then is the dancehall dance. Sounds interesting. You can register online thru Nikewomen.com.my or get the leaflet from FF. Come gals...let's go party!
I might go if got friends go.... :D
Nice Message
If you're mad with someone , and nobody's there to fix the situation... You fix it . Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend . And if u don't, tomorrow can be too late.
If you're in love with somebody , but that person doesn't know... tell her/him. Maybe today, that person is also in love with you . And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late.
If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you... tell her/him. Maybe that person has always loved you. And if you don't tell her/him today , tomorrow can be too late.
If you need a hug of a friend... ask her/him for it. Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late.
If you really have friends who you appreciate... tell them. Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don't and they leave or go far away today , tomorrow can be too late.
If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them... do it . Maybe you have them there to show them how you feel. That if you don't and they leave today , and then tomorrow can be too late.
If you can pass on these messages to everyone you know...
