Difference between Men & Women Contributions

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那晚，我認識的一對年輕夫妻中的太太哭著來電：「你快來！我恨他！我要和他離婚！」快速趕到他們家,這會兒還正吵的兇呢！

男說：「她很無聊，我上班好累，她說晚上要去散步，我說改天，她就又哭又鬧，真是討厭！」

女說：「你才討厭，我在家作牛作馬為這個家打掃，為你做飯為你生孩子，為你們臭男人當發洩獸慾的工具，怎麼，只要求散個步你就會累死啦！？」

男說：「喂！生小孩是兩人的事又不是我一人的事，妳累難道我不累？我發洩難道妳沒享受？」

女說：「哼！早知道生了小孩你不管我，我根本就不生，我們女人為何辛苦生下孩子，就一定要負責孩子的一切，又不能出去工作。」

男說：「喂！生孩子又不是妳一人能辦到，沒有我妳生個屁。」

女說：「哼！你們男人有何貢獻？享受女人肉體的是你，發洩的也是你，你貢獻什麼」

男說：「哼！沒有我的貢獻精子妳生什麼！？」

再來下面的話讓人難忘！！

女說：「哈哈！貢獻精子你，享受完了，你射精了，你貢獻了，好..那看看我們女人的貢獻：我懷孕要忍耐嘔吐」
我要小心飲食；我連生病都不敢吃藥；我要為肚裏孩子注意一切；我懷孕不便於行；
我不再能遠行郊遊；我坐車都不方便；我要穿上大肚裝；我不能放心行房；
我要擔心肚裏孩子是否健康；我要定時去醫院產檢；我懷孕要破壞身材；
我要煩惱妊娠紋的出現；生產後要努力恢復身材使丈夫不嫌棄；我要忍受陣痛
我要痛苦生產；我也許須要剖腹生產；我也許會有產後憂鬱症；我要帶初生嬰兒；
我因餵奶而胸部下垂；我要照顧小孩生活起居；我要比小孩晚睡而比小孩早起；
我要半夜起床餵奶；我還是要忙一切家事；我要放棄事業；我伸手要錢要看丈夫臉色
丈夫出門享樂而我得在家帶小孩；甚至於走樣的身材是丈夫外遇的藉口
這種種一切就是我的貢獻！
你不過是享受完之後，放一點精子在我肚裏，然後大睡，奇怪…這種情況，憑什麼小孩要跟著你姓？他的血他的肉他的一切都是我給的，你不過只給他一丁點兒，有什麼資格跟我爭？」

這場架吵完了，我記得那丈夫極力想爭辯，卻一點話都說不出來。
想一想，好像事實真是如此。

男人啊！以後真的要對自己的老婆好一點喔！

至於女人嘛！好好把這篇記下來吧！會很好用唷！

Yuhooo!!!

forget me not? I know been long no update blog lah. been busy with works. same old thing...busy with many things as well. wanted to write n post photos but have no time. tight up with works. I'm under stress now! doask me what. many things. many thoughts. sob sob. But will be fine. just need u guys keep visiting here and support me k. don forget me. give me more tlc will do...hehehe

hey! i have to sleep! must! (*can i?*) hehe. try lah...nitezzzzz

REAL LOVE

So you've found someone to love. Fabulous! Whether it's been siz days, six weeks, six years or longer, you want to make it work and for this relationship to be the one that lasts and grows stronger and better every day. That's why today, at the very beginning, you need to take a look at what love is and what it means to you. Love is discussed constantly and much has been written about it. But what is it? We may see images of hearts and flowers, talk of romance and excitement, joy and passion, but although love can include all these things, they don't explain what it is.

Some things love isn't

• Chasing after someone who doesn't really want you.
• Letting yourself be smothered, hurt or put down.
• Trying to mould yourself into something you think you should be.
• Always going along with what your partner wants.
• Bouncing continually between highs and lows, excitement and tears.
• Presenting only the 'acceptable' part of yourself to someone.
• Drama, gossip, pretence or flattery.
• Staying with someone to avoid being alone.
• Shunning real closeness and intimacy.
• Tryingi ito fix someone or have them fix you.

If you are doing any of the above, it's time to stop and review the relationship. This doensn't mean the relationship has to end, but you may need to try to do some things differently and see whether the relationship is strong enough to survive the changes.

Some things love is

• Letting your partner know the real you, wars and all.
• Taking the time and trouble to get to know him, wars and all.
• Growing and learning together.
• Respecting one another.
• Developing trust between you.
• Staying committed even when you want to run away.
• Liking your partner.
• Sharing fears, doubts, hopes and dreams.
• Taking responsibility for yourself.
• Accepting what you don't like in your partner as well as what you do.

Think about the relationship. How many of the above are true for you and your partner? What strengths and weakness does the relationship have? Are there changes you need to make in yourself? What would you like to change about the way the tow of you are together?

Be wise about love and choose the path to real love

Relationships

You've found the love of your life, but will you last the course?

Is this the real deal or are you stuck in an unhealthy relationship?

Are you sure he's the one for you, but not sure how to make love last?

Can you ride with the inevitable changes life together will bring?

Have you ever ask such questions to yourself?

I'm Back!

Hi all...how are you guys. I'm just back from holiday. I know I've been long time no update my blog. I have too much to put up here and yet no mood and time to do it. Be patient and for sure I will do it especially my holiday pics! At first thought of update blog daily when in holiday. But seriously no time and I can't access internet all the time. Too bad. But I'll catch up and show you guys where I've been to. promised yeah!

Here to write a short post first and tell you guys I'm still alive. I'm still doing good...may be just some down and sad times...but no worries yeah...I promised to be more positive and be strong and be happy always. This is what I want for now!

Just now went for happy hour after work with my beloved steph sis....thanks to her willing have a talk and I feel better after the talk. And feel even better after 2 cups of beer....and even even feel better doing a class with 'high' condition...lucky not teaching but shadowing. It gives me power..give me energy...drive me to the max. I felt good after the class. At least I tried hard to push. Telling myself keep it up and keep it hard push and push to the max...I know I can do it! Just do it!! hehe

一个人

当一个人静下来的时候，就不知不觉不断的想，猜测。也许是我想太多了。也许是我期望太大了。

爱一个人很难，也很辛苦，该怎么办？我，是注定得不到幸福了。

放手也许是一件好事，放下期望也许是解脱。

为了爱，愿付出全部，但也遍体鳞伤。

Want to Sell

I wanted to sell my camera and intend to get a smaller one. Anyone interested you can contact me by leaving a message here or email to me ok? Price negotiable but message me personally first. Hopefully can sell it by this month because I wanted to get new one before going for holiday :D

Canon Powershot S3IS

And my brother in law wanted to sell his Canon 450D. Not sure is he seriously wanted to sell or just joking. That day I play with it and interested then he give me a price and ask me wanted to buy or not. hehehe to me it's too expensive. But the price is lower than retail price. It's just bought not long ago and still very new. Interested? Ask me. :D

Canon EOS 450D

CS Collection

What is CS? It means Coastal Scents. It's a brand of cosmetics in US. hehe. yeah...recently interested in buying US brand's cosmetics online! Don't think that it's expensive. It is not at all! Very much cheaper than the prices here. CS has a good quality products from my opinion. Especially love their palettes! Remember my previous post of 88 palette? Actually it is one of the product from CS. But I got it locally. Wonder is it really from US or imitate. But the quality is good as it is from the real CS palette. Been using 88 palette alot and so far love it very much! Thanks to Fanny introduce me this..haha. Because of her then I start look into CS website and so wanted to have their other palette and brushes. Thank again to Fanny make my wallet thinner :D. I got to know one of my friend coming back from US for cny holiday. Just on time to order online and send to this friend to bring it back. Save my delivery cost leh. Quite a lot. Thank you Ah Cai!! hehe owe u big big meal but donno when can return to u :p...Am I talk too much? eagerly to know what's my collection? ok ok here the pics of all my collection from CS.

Palettes that I have:

88 Makeup Palette

No need I say anymore..it has so many colors mix and match. I had just tried few colors so far.

 

26 Shadow Blush Combo Palette

Like the colors combination and very useful.

  

Contour and Blush Palette

It's hot!! I just got it today...yet to try it. It was out of stock for some time.

  

Brushes Collection: 

Haven't try the brushes yet. It instructed to wash for the first time. But yet lazy + no time to do it :p will do it soon so I can try all the brushes :D...am still learning what kind of brushes use for what purposes...

3pcs Limited Edition Brush Set

  

It consists of - Face/Blush Brush, Kabuki Brush, Concealer Brush

  

What's inside in this pink bag?

  

Here you go...Pink Kabuki Brush, Foundation Concealer Brush (Large), Pink Synthetic Oval Foundation, Pink Round Crease Eye Brush, Italian Badger Round Crease Brush, Black Deluxe Shadow, Angle Blush Brush, Blending Brush, Chisel Fluff Large Shadow Brush, Chisel Angle Fluff Shadow Brush, Chisel Fluff/Pointed Crease Duet, White Angled liner Brush

  

They mistaken on my order. The gave me extra White Angled liner Brush and less one crease brush but the pricing about the same so I didn't go ask for it.

All brushes from CS in my collection :D wuhooo....first time own so many brushes at one time

  

Gel Liner - Indigo Blue

Suppose order Black as well but it is out of stock so they refund to me.

 

Interested to check out their website? Here you go Coastal Scents

這一生，你錯過了什麼?

這一生，你錯過了什麼?

太太在二十五歲時問丈夫，
丈夫沮喪的回答她：
我錯過一個新的工作機會。

三十五歲時，丈夫生氣的告訴她：
我剛錯過了一班公車。

四十五歲時，丈夫傷心的說：
我錯過與親人見最後一面。

五十五歲時，丈夫失望的回答：
我錯過了退休的好時機。

六十五歲時，丈夫匆匆的答說：
我錯過了看牙醫的時間。

一如往常的，太太總是回以微笑，
而微笑中總帶著落寞。

七十五歲那年， 太太不再問先生了，
此時，先生正跪坐在病危的太太面前，

想起太太每隔一段時間，
總要問他的問題，他反過來問太太，
而太太的微笑中帶著解脫回答：
這一生，我沒有錯過你！

此時，先生早已淚流滿面，
原以為兩人可以永遠在一起，
所以，終日忙著工作與繁瑣的事，
卻從不曾用心體貼朝夕相處的另一半，

先生緊抱著太太說：
這輩子，我錯過妳五十年來的深情……


繁忙的都市裡，有著許多為工作打拚的人，
大家總習慣於把工作當成生活的重心，

為了滿足社會的價值，
不惜出賣自己的時間與身體，
捨不得多花時間投資健康，
以至於錯過了陪同孩子成長的機會、
忽略了身旁關心自己的親友、輕忽了自己的身體。

珍惜，果真要在錯過後才能感受？
沒有人知道明年今日會怎麼？

人世無常，趕緊把握當下，把心中的感激告訴愛你的人、
用行動關心你的家人，把每一天都當成人生的最後一段，
即使走了，也能讓自己及身旁的人了無遺憾。

我想我也錯過了很多很多

感想

始终不时想要的， 是能知道。 不能勉强， 感受到的。

每一句所说的，有顾及别的感受吗？

It's Over

Everything just happened so quick. It's over more than 2 weeks now. I've been wanted to blog about it but I was tight up and no such mood blogging it. Before I say anything in details, I wanted to take this opportunity to thank to everyone of you, every friends I have, my family that always be with me and support me. Thank you for the encouragement and mentally supports and those who contributed. Every FB messages, every SMS, every calls I received and sorry for not replying. Forgive me but to tell all of you I received it and really thank you. Love you all!!!

For those who knows or who doesn't know and concerns about my mum. She has been relieved from pains and suffering illness. She is now rest in peace in somewhere and watching us. I hope she has a better, peaceful, relaxing life. No longer worried for us and work hard for us. My mum was never enjoy her life. Always non-stop contributed her life to us. I'm regretted did not give her a better life and make her happy. I miss my mum now. Wherever I go or I eat or whenever I'm back home things that remind me of her, I will think about her and unconsciously cried. I'm trying not to think and make myself occupied to think about her so that I won't be sad and cry again. I want be strong as you all ask me to be. But I can't when I talk about her, think about her.

May be me and my mum not that closed as my sister as I'm the youngest and seldom spend time at home. And we hardly communicate. But I still love her and she always very pampered me. I miss the time to ask her cook my favourite dishes whenever I go home. It's been long long time and I don't remember when was the last time she did it for me. When I was home I get annoyed sometimes with what she did but now I wanted to get angry with her also cannot. I miss her being around and cook yummy food for us. I miss to have warm home cook dinner especially cook by mum. I have no more chance to learn the cooking skills from her especially hakka food that she used to make for us.

Frankly, I never thought of this will happend or at least not so soon. I always think that my family will always with me no matter how old I am now. When I was young, I lost my dog and rabbit I cried for days and very very sad. Now I can't believe I lost my mum. I can't accept this until I know it's a fact. It's a painful feeling when loosing something or someone you love. Till now I still can remember mum's last breath. I remembered I called her and she unconsciously response me. Then she just gone. I know we have to go through this stage of life by loosing someone. It's the fact and we have to accept it no matter what.

Few days before my mum left us, doctor said she can hang at least 1 week or longer. And we planned to bring her home and get a hospis helping us when mum is home. Suppose wanna bring her home on Saturday but because no hospis working till Monday have no choice to stay. On the day itself my sis from Perth flew back to see mum. Can see she was so happy to see my sis and the grand children. I prayed hard that she can hang on till we bring her home but thing will never work out as you planned. Situations got worst when doc told us her stomach internal bleeding and lung has water cause her difficult breathing. We knew that she can't make it. So the whole Sunday we all were there with her. We don't even dare to leave her. But on that day itself I was sick badly. Hospital aircond too cold and I was fever. I was whole body shivering staying in hospital until I can't stand anymore and walk down to car to get some hot air and rest for a while. I need a blanket even am in the car without starting the car. Had panadol and sleep for while while waiting sis call me if anything happened. I was so panic when I hear the phone ring. When told to go up immediately....I was so so so scared that I can't see mum again. Too bad that I only manage to be with her for the last minute. Why I was sick and cant be with her all the time?! All the moments that happened that night still fresh in my mind. Everyone can't accept it. My sisters cried all out and everyone does.

All happened too quick but lucky I have siblings and bro in laws help to settle everything. What I can do just sit there and cry. But I'm glad that mum able to see everyone of us. Everyone was besides her until she gone. Should glad that she no longer suffer. That's her wish all these while. She has been telling nurse or doctor she doesn't want to live any longer. It should be a good thing for her. We should not sad but happy for her. Let her know that we are living good and she has no worries anymore. It's so fast already 2 weeks since it happened. I've been telling me or ppl who asks I'm ok, no worries. That's what I want to get over it. It will but takes time.

I'm recording down every details I can to remember her last moment with us. She dies in 18 Jan 2009 10:50pm at aged 67 with whole family by her side. She should be comfort even she goes.

Good Bye Ma...I will take care myself and be good. No worries.

In remembrance of my mother. I will always love you although I never tell you once.

It's hurt but will get over it.

 

mum's pretty photo...love you and miss you

My wishes that can't be accomplished:

I wished to have whole family trip. In my memories I don't recall I have it which I really really wish to have.

I wished to have absolutely warm family reunion dinner which I lost the feeling how it is since many years ago.

I wished to have whole family photo with everyone in it including new added in family members.

I wished to have family feels when everyone around in the house. Although noisy but at least I don't feel lonely.

Lonely

I don't like the feeling being left out. Like everyone forgetting me already. I feel lonely here.

Quick Post

Have a quick post here. I have many things to tell to share. But yet got the mood sit down and write them down. There are things happened just within these 2 weeks. Need to be recorded down. Soon I'll update everything.

As am writing here I heard a lot of dogs barking surround my house. Very scary especially those mooning sounds. Scare to be alone at home.

Good night...

Can't be strong anymore

As I am writing here I am at hospital accompany mum till the last second she can hold. Doctor says mum leaving anytime now. We all here with her. Everybody tries the best with her.

I am not strong now..got sick suddenly. Week n whole body aching. Feeling cold. I am so lousy, got sick at this moment. I am struggling with my body pain n seeing mum struggling as well. Hopefully she can hang on till tmrw as we plan bring her home tmrw.

Hope miracle happens n bless my mum with whole heart. Wish she will be fine.

-- Post From My iPhone

Should I be prepared?

So far how's ur 2009? I don't feel smooth since started the new year. Did not happen any bad things but don't feel good at all. Hopefully later will be better ahead bah.

Sorry for not updating the blog. I've been busy doing something else and also busy with work. There are things happened in this new year so far. My classes at TF been cut and now I don't have any classes already. sad :( my efforts not applicable now. May be still got some replacement classes but very few. Can say I am free whole week but in fact not free also. As you know busy at work. work till late. tired after work and no time do something else. Is life like this? sometimes will ask...busy at gym will say no life....now no busy at gym anymore still say no life...

Beside les mills program, which not giving me good return, I am trying to learn freestyle step now. did my very own first step class by replacing at a small studio. Still manageable with a bit hiccup but still ok I presume. Most probably will take over the class and hope from there I am able to pick up and able to teach better in freestyle step class. I've been wanted to pick up this as I am interested in it. Problem and worry is the choreography. Been researching a lot regarding it and hopefully slowly get used to it bah.

As you see this entry's title...should I be prepared? what I need to prepare? I also donno how should I say.  Lately been to hospital few times due to mum admitted, discharged and admit again. Now she is still in hospital. Reason mum in hospital due to she has difficultly to eat until she can't even walk. Has to carry her. Doctor said she has viral infection on her throat, mouth and lung. That's why she complain pain when eat. So no choice, have to put a hose from mouth to her stomach to feed her. But these few days after feed her, her stomach bloated. At first my sis sms me telling me this sound so serious, I am prepare to go see her already. Then later doctor said may be over feed and some other reason. But we know her liver tumor is getting bigger and harder. However it is not because of the tumor sudden bloated. She has water retention and doesn't pass pee much. Lots of reasons cause her bloated. Again, just now received a sms from sis, said mum has breath difficulty and eye swollen and very yellow. She has jaundice due to liver mulfunction. I was so worried and sis ask me to go back if I can. I just left work that time. So called to understand the situation and later sis say no need go there since is late. So plan go see her tomorrow after work.

By looking at my mum condition now, donno should we be prepared for the day comes or hopefully she is getting better? But it seems never get better but worst. Every time friend ask me about my mum, I really donno how to answer...she has a lot of side effects from the chemo cause her suffering now. Really heartache to see when unable to help. How I wish I can answer that my mum is getting better and better! I would be happy to answer this. But is sad it is the other way. I can't hold my tears whenever think of her and see her just lying on the bed and can't move and talk at all.

sorry guys...I donno how to write anymore...I'm tired already...should go for a rest. good night....

Yesterday's lunch

Yesterday follow colleague lunch at pudu. First time to this place. It sells foochow food and got this specialty which is red rice wine meeshua and also the foochow famous fish ball. The food not bad but very little portion. I find the meeshua something special which I never try.

Red Rice Wine Mee Shua...actual is in very red color. I didn't try it but tasted the soup. Nice. May be try next time. RM7.

 

I had this instead...foochow fish ball noodle. The fishball very big size inside stuff with meat. RM4.

  

The shop. Lots of paper cutting show how famous they are.

  

Part of the menu with the shop's name

 

Seremban Food...Rich Lunch

Last weekend was in Seremban so take a chance to try back the food that I've missed for long long time. This chicken rice I ate it since very young with my family. I remembered before school or after school sure go with parents and siblings. Until the food seller know us very well. What so special with the chicken rice? chicken rice is second. I like the most is the black char siew we called it burnt char siew cos very very black one. The sauce sweet and sticky and yummy. And I like the soup very much also. It is cucumber soup which you can't get the taste else where. Last weekend I purposely drive over there to ta bao home eat with sis. Let's show u the pics lar....

the shop name

 

the chicken rice with siew yuk...still good taste wor

  

yay at last tried the dark char siew again...still yummy

 

Another thing to say about the restaurant I went for dinner. The food no doubt are good especially the fish head beehoon. But don't go during weekend!! U have to wait for super long! We were pissed with the service and slowness of the food came out. Not because of the food I will leave early. Just a complaint about this shop and let you know the shop's name! kekeke

Rich Lunch!!!

Today first day work in 2009. Out of sudden boss came in our office and count how many of us. Then ask us wanted go lunch or not. I was wonder why leh? later found out he wants to buy everyone lunch lor. total 19 of us who back to work (those still on holiday no 'hao fuk' lar ;) ). Didn't know where lunch until reach there. Donno the restaurant name, donno where it is, just know some where in KL. kakaka. because not me driving and first time go to this place. Quite an old building but got this chinese restaurant. We booked 2 tables and know what we having??? hehhee we having expensive dishes just like those wedding dinner :p for lunch leh.

I was too hungry and forgot take pics and lazy take lar. Pai seh to ask everyone wait for me take pics only can start eating. Just managed took 2 and will show later. Let me tell what are the dishes first.

1. "lang poon" which consists of 4 types dishes, 海贽with abalone slice, pork rib, crab meat and shark fin's fried egg, 佛跳墙 (chicken cubes with fried yam).

2. 鱼翅 Sharfin's soup

3. 乳猪 Piglet

 

4. Batin Patin Fish

5. Yin Yong Duck and Chicken

6. Vegetarian dish includes lots of mushrooms and nai bak (love the mushrooms)

7. 腊肠Fried Rice

8. Dessert - Omochi &窝饼 and longan soup

I think that's all we had. Very yummy and rich leh. I ate so full until now no dinner at all :p Donno why boss so good. May be is new year's lunch for first day of work in 2009. That's good de neh...but other side spoiled my diet plan! sob sob :p

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Actually I have an ulcer on my inner lip so pain leh. But still can eat so much hoh. hahaha. Imagine I just have one ulcer already feel the pain. Can't imagine my mum whole mouth lips or tongue full of ulcers. Can't blame her don't eat and drink lar. Kesian mum lar :(....she still stay in hospital and probably only can discharge next Monday. Then it will be 1 week stay in hospital leh. I know mum doesn't want to stay in hospital and she wants get better. However still the same...slow recover. sigh. I really really hope she recovers soon and no need suffer like this lar. I feel the pain as she is feeling now but just 1% of hers. :((( Went back see her yesterday and tomorrow and sunday will visit her as well. Try to be with her as much time as I can. I am tired of driving but have to lar. Wish any god around please help my mum recovers....

good night....

2008 Wrap Up

Today is last day of 2008. Have to say good bye soon. Year pass year..hopefully a new year a better one. Have you guys look back what you've done for the entire year? What did you achieve in your life? Did you meet your objectives? I have a bad memory. I can't recall every single things that happened. I may only remember the big things happened, what I achieved (may be not), what I've been thru, what happened up and down. Of course everyone had been thru all these no matter good or bad...now you are here and say goodbye to 2008. You should be glad you are still here to recall the past year...you've been thru the worst time you ever had and you've enjoyed the most happiest moments in the year.

My one? I can say many many things happened and I can say happy times more than sad times. It should be this way...try to be happy always instead sad. Although unhappy times will happen but look at it at a bright side. I've learnt to be more positive to see things. Take things easily. Appreciates anyone that you know and treat them good. Being nice to others no mean to have returns. As long as you are happy to give your loves.

It seems I have many things to write but I donno how to write. I also donno what I've achieved for the past year. What I've did wrong. I just want to ask for a forgiveness from anyone of you for my mistakes if I did hurt you. Wish all my friends and anyone of you that I know a very very Happy New Year and a good year ahead regardless what. The most important is all stay healthy and happy always! :) Believe will be a better year for everyone!!! Believe in it and it will happen :D

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Last Weekend

I was back home at Seremban last long weekend. When first step in my house saw my mum I was shocked. She shrink down a lot and a lot! Heartache to see her like this. Sis told me she has been more than a week didn't eat much and drink much. Only had 1 cup of cereal juice and that's it for one whole day. And my mum is not a water person. She doesn't like to drink water. Due to she doesn't eat...she has no energy. Can't wake up by herself and walk also difficult. Everyday said tired and wanted to sleep. We tried to force her drink liquid food such as fruit juices but she will never finished. Worst thing is know that she has lots of ulcers on her tongue and mouth. Why all these happened? Last Monday she had a chemo and since then she can't eat and body got heaty especially she doesn't drink water.

I don't mean to scold mum but I have to. I want her to know what is important now and what she needs to do. If she keeps on like this will get wearker and weaker. Whatever we should say we said it. Whatever we should do we did it. But doesn't change anything. Is herself that not strong enough and change the situations. She also told sis..."no eat no drink just die will do"....oh no..she thinks so...she wanted to give up. I know she is. She has no fighting mind to get better. :( She may be just don't want burden us, she wanted to go as soon as possible. But we don't want...we wanted her recover and stay forever with us. We were trying hard and I know sis the most and she exhausted as well. Now only my sis taking care of her full time. I know she also fed up seeing mum like this. It is really sad and as if a knive slash on your heart when seeing your family being such suffer situations....and yet you can't do anything! It is all about herself. How she thinks and how she wants to be. If she still stays unhappy like this it doesn't help the situations. But if she stubborns to be like this what we can do??

Mum admitted to hospital on Monday. Doctor said she has infections on her mouth, her lung. Needs to have some time to stay in hospital to get recover. My siblings decided may not give her chemo for time being. May be is better for her. Hopefully she gets better after this. Let's pray for my mum. It's a new year ahead and I wish my mum gets healthier and always with us....

Lunches

Taken some food pics from my lunches which I wanted to share with you guys :D

Pan Mee @ Puchong (Opposite IOI mall those shop lots...next to Old Town Kopitiam)

Why this pan mee so special? I also donno. Friend asked go there lunch. First time there. Lots of ppl. The shop introduced by Ho Chiak before. Have to wait for seats during lunch time. Lucky not too long. Look at the menu while waiting for Nat arrives. Interesting menu. Mostly pan mee and different types of style. Feel like trying all but of course no lar. So just ordered the famous orginal soup type. Nat ordered chili dry one. But funny is I saw ppl there not eat pan mee but fried rice. hmmm may be they tried all types of pan mee n bored with it?

The shop's name - Golden Egg Noodle

 

The pan mee I ordered. Pumpkin noodle taste.

  

They have different types of noodle. Red one is chili one.

  

hehehe....ordered ABC also...hmmm late crave for ABC :p

 

Pudu Fei Chou Yu (African Fish) - near Pudu Plaza

Yesterday lunch with colleagues and 2 bosses. Planned just have fruits whole day but spoiled my plan. sigh... but still good I had fruits for breakfast and dinner :D so lunch just pamper myself lar :p wat a lousy reasons for a good food that I can't resist! But the food really nice wor. See what we had just for lunch hoh....

dang dang dang dang....7 peeps 6 dishes...all dishes are their specialty...all dishes are yummy

Deep fried with yummy sauce

 

2 types of sauce...garlic and black soy bean sauce

  

chicken drumstick x2

  

onion salted fish steam tauhu, vege

  

fried onion eggs