I'm Broke

Today sent my car to fix. Never expect it takes so long time and so damn expensive. According to workshop they said a lot of things have to change. Add this and that in the end the bill is killing me. wa wa wa...cry without tears now. :( First of all, took 7 hours to fix the car problem...so damn long. Lucky I got a friend be my driver and accompany me to get computer gadgets. Secondly, the bill cost RM1250! superb expensive! So now I'm officially broke. My money to BKK trip gone now. no money shop already!!! wah wah wah wah wah....

Oh by the way...next Friday going to BKK! looking forward. Be back on Monday and Tuesday start work lor....sob sob. Have to really enjoy the last week I have now!

Car Breakdown

Today I didn't drive out at all until just now about to go for class. Nearly can't start up my car but lucky manage to start and able to be at Taipan teaching classes. After class went dinner with members...they buy me dinner. so nice of them. So around 11pm we went off and this time no more luck. Try and try but fail to start up my car. Battery gone. So have to make SOS call to Raymond. Lucky Larry know how to jump start the car. Both of them are my rescuer came to help me. Buy them supper for helping me :D. Tomorrow morning gotta send the car to fix lor...sigh. Already booked a friend helps me :p

Arigatou!!

Oh by the way...haven't wish my readers Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!!!
I think I'm having too long break made myself too lazy...kakaka..trying hard to update my blog as much as I can now.

New Highway - KL-Putrajaya

A new highway opened which is KL Putrajaya highway. I found out this highway opened about last 2 weeks ago. That night super jam at KL-Seremban highway so I saw this exit before kuchai lama exit and it is straight to the place I live. So I just take a chance try the new highway...it is fast way without traffic jam. Best thing is no toll all the way. Then last week I try the highway again and this time from my house to Pavilion. The highway leads to KL town and exit from Jln Tun Razak. Only 1 toll to pass by but now still free. I just took 10 mins to reach KL without traffic jam. Same thing came back from town to my house within 10 mins. I so like the highway. Convenient and fast to me! Will use it more often when going down to KL. It is also leads to kuchai lama and I can skip traffic jam along KL-Seremban highway if I'm going to PJ. hiak. nice nice. For those havent try yet pls use it!

TF Q4 Launch

This quarter launch I was involved. Lucky that I am part of the launch team for body jam. This time the launch was very fun. Everyone dress up for xmas theme. Can see everywhere red and full of xmas atmosphere. As usual, before the launch we will spent time to practice...until late night. But worth of the efforts. The outcome was good. A lot members and they enjoyed. It was a exciting launch. One thing to highlight is we have to do entire class with jeans. Very hot and heavy. So not used to it but thank god still manage to get over it. :p Let the photos speak everything la...I lazy write also.

This is the BodyJam launch team before class photo - Jason & 'S' Sistas :)



After the launch with santa and the 'S' sistas with rain deer band


More photos check here

Having Break

I've already resigned from Eye Bee M....monday was my last day. yeah I'm changing job again. well, why? there are a lot of things happened and I'm not happy working there. So just made a decision which I feel better. Since I resigned early this month I am happier...more relaxing...no stress. That's I want now. Glad that I'm leaving a place that I'm not suitable in. Some of you might think it is such a good company why leave? In fact, after you went in you won't think it is good as what you are thinking. Conclusion, I'm not suitable there and there not suitable me.

Anyway I'm already having break and do nothing at home since after monday. :D the day still pass as usual. at night I'm still teaching classes. oh yeah...after I resigned I got a job offer from ex company (the first job) as senior software architect. Back to my old skill in programming. Hopefully it is better place for me although pay cut. May be this is I need now, less pay doesnt matter, as long as lesser pressure and more flexible...not so much politics. Starting new job in January. Quite a long break for me :) and will go bangkok before I start new job. yippie!

now everyday sleep, eat...do nothing...playing with my new desktop....hiak

爱情

往往许多人在抉择伴侣时,容易东想西想,不知所措,就是因为害怕一时做错决定,看错人,造成终生的遗憾。

诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说:「此时此刻在地球上,约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣,就看你先遇到哪一个,如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前,你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜、互相信赖的深层关系,那后者就会变成你的好朋友,但是若你跟前一个人没有培养出深层关系,感情就容易动摇、变心,直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情,才是幸福的开始,漂泊的结束」

爱上一个人不需要靠努力,只需要靠「际遇」,是上天的安排,但是「持续地爱一个人」就要靠「努力」,在爱情的经营中,顺畅运转的要素就是沟通、体谅、包容与自制(面临诱惑有所自制)。有许多人总是为「际遇」所迷惑与苦恼,意念不停、欲念不断、争逐不散,而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。

所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的Mr. Right,而是要问说在眼前的伴侣关系中,我能努力到什么程度、成长到什么程度,若没有培养出经营幸福的能力,就算真的 Mr. Right出现在你身边,幸福依然会错过的,而活在犹疑与遗憾当中,这不就是许多「爱情虚无症」的遭遇与心态吗？

若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣,不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了,我们往往不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱,就是「近亲生慢侮」,也就是经济学中的铁律「边际效益递减法则」,跟你在一起越久的人,就越容易麻木与忽视,而新鲜的「际遇」总是那么动人可爱。

在感情对待中,难免有摩擦与无心的伤害,而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人,当然是跟我们在一起最久、最亲近的人。而新欢呢,又还没开始有得罪你的机会,再加上他的刻意讨好,所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱,旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。

但别忘了,新欢身上总是有不确定的未知数,旧爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感、确定感、信赖感。千万不要随便在偶然的「际遇」中迷失了自己,错放了幸福温暖的手。

所以萧伯纳的话,是要提醒情人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一,应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上,同时也提醒我们「溺水三千只取一瓢饮」若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣,就不要再三心二意了,因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个,所以要知福惜福、活在当下

勇气

终于作了这个决定 别人怎么说我不理

只要你也一样的肯定 我愿意天涯海角都随你去

我知道一切不容易 我的心一直温习说服自己

最怕你忽然说要放弃 爱真的需要勇气来面对流言蜚语

只要你一个眼神肯定 我的爱就有意义

我们都需要勇气 去相信会在一起

人潮拥挤我能感觉你 放在我手心里你的真心